"Being lost" [2] [villanelle]

Being born is like being lost
but death is hardly a finding
being something has a cost

in the stew we're always tossed!
did we need reminding?
being born is like being lost

some are served & some are bossed
does bossing bring the binding?
being something has a cost

teeth are brushed or even flossed
arbiters file a finding
being born is like being lost

murtis are garlanded   buddhas get jossed
do mummies meet unwinding?
being something has a cost

games are played or briefly paused
flour's attained by grinding
being born is like being lost
being something has a cost